I believe all children are entitled to having their needs met while in the classroom. With this belief I have seen many children get treated unfairly. Their needs are not met. The one that I see the most is children with differences. I think of one little girl in particular. She is a student in my class this year and as soon as she started school I knew she would need different individualized instruction. Her care is also different than the rest of the children. She takes a lot of extra guidance, patience, and she learns differently than the rest of the children in the class. She is currently being tested for autism. As a first year teacher I wanted to make sure I did everything I could to get her all of the services available. I began looking up ways to help her learn. I also kept daily notes on her to observe her movements.
I learned that she loves to learn through song. If there is music playing she will be right, there with you. She will also take magnets and make microphones to sing into. She has a hard time sitting on the carpet so she has been given many options. She has wiggle chairs, rocking chairs, big pillows, and squares. She is extremely sensory based. I have added sand, water, playdough, foam, and many more activities. She also struggled during nap. I noticed she liked when I applied pressure while rubbing her back. I communicated with her mom to see how she sleeps at home. Her mom said she sleeps with a weighted blanket at home so I advocated for her to be able to bring it to school. These are just some of the things I have done just to make sure her needs are met while she is in my classroom.
With the changes I noticed quickly that other staff members seemed annoyed by her. Some teachers don’t believe in meeting all children’s needs in the classroom. This is what I have seen. They push her away or tell her to come to me because “I am her person.” I was even told they can’t handle her and “she’s your child, deal with her.” I have come to the conclusion if this is happening in front of me, this has to be happening in more places. Something has to be done, we have to make a change. No matter how a child learns or develops, we as educators need to be there to support them.
Every child is capable of learning, and it is up to us as educators to ensure they are given the opportunity to do so. By watching the children and learning how they learn best we can better assist the children. We can also make them feel more comfortable. My next thought is we also need to collaborate with parents to reach all children. They know their children best. They can help us understand their children and the ways that they learn at home. It can also help us maintain consistency in the home, and in the classroom. By creating a room that the environment matches the children’s needs, and promotes diversity, and equity it will help ensure no child is left behind.
Danielle Savory
April 24, 2023 — 1:32 pm
Kendyl, thank you for sharing your passion for supporting each and every child in your classroom! All children have the right to learn, and as early childhood educators, we are responsible for the learning and well-being of all the children in our classroom. I can see you becoming a wonderful advocate for inclusion–(in fact, you already are)!
Tricia McKay
April 26, 2023 — 9:59 am
Kendyl, Thank you for sharing your story and for being an advocate for the little girl you write about in your essay, and for including all children. It makes me sad to think there are people working with young children who don’t value children’s different needs and abilities. Children and families need more teachers like you who understand the importance of meeting each child’s needs and who are willing to take the extra time to support each and every child. The little girl in your essay is lucky to have you! Best of luck to you in all your future endeavors! I believe you will continue to be a strong advocate for all children and families!
Heidi Jordan
April 26, 2023 — 1:39 pm
I so appreciate your belief that ALL children are capable learners…if the educator simply adapts to meet their needs. Keep sharing this with everyone you work with! You can make a difference!
Angela Hook
April 26, 2023 — 3:25 pm
I really appreciate your love as a teacher and it is expressed in how you go the extra mile for your students. We need more people like you in the school system because it would make it a better place. I love how you take the time to focus on the needs of the child and recognize every child needs can be different.